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“Temper changed for the better,” “position becomes higher,” Yesterday afternoon, a small South (a pseudonym) lying in the classroom bench, change slowly, he wrote this a few weeks. Close to his mother, added, “your dad for a hello.”
“Ah, you Zhicuojiugai up.” Naughty little south back to the sentence.
And a month ago, is not the case: the son addicted to online games, namely non-playing father scolded his son, his mother blaming.
To kick the addiction, they volunteered to participate in a youth Internet addiction prevention and intervention programs. The project research and intervention center after two years of development,http://bbs.bl33.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=630433,christian louboutin outlet, the latest to help young people get rid of addiction programs by BNU network usage behavior. The project is proposed as an intervention target the whole family, from the change in family structure,cheap red bottom shoes, family communication, such as angle, change the child addiction habits.
Dr. Liu Chaoying project team members believe that addiction teenagers have a great relationship with the family, so the treatment of addiction get parents involved.
The project carried out last summer was in Inner Mongolia, the Beijing Second Intermediate election at the spa, four were found to suffer from varying degrees of addiction of children and their parents volunteered for free lessons. From the beginning of November 20 last year, they came every Saturday on two hours lesson.
Yesterday was the last lesson. Six weeks time, each family and children are gradually changing.
Children infected addiction father punched
Yesterday afternoon, more than two, spa two junior middle school students in a small South, Jatropha and Konishi with their mother about the appointed time.
More than half of the course, Liu Chaoying let everyone closes his eyes, slowly relax, take a deep breath. She let them imagine the scene after a year and happy family, they eat together,lancel pas cher, watch TV together.
A few minutes later, we opened his eyes. For all to see,http://cgi.www5e.biglobe.ne.jp/~scale_s/bbs/light.cgi?res=2834, the mother of a small South rosy cheeks, his eyes moist.
“One thing deeply touched. Excitedly moved.” She thought that a recent family dinner scene,louboutin homme pas cher, but before that, they had never eaten at home on a table.
“My son suddenly grown up,cheap gucci handbags.” She felt.
And Liu Chaoying said, just getting class, a small South team’s performance is one of the most serious problems.
“At that time, he said stay away, no discipline, achievement in the class countdown.” Liu Chaoying said, but the most serious problem is that he and his father’s condition.
Small Southern feel, like his father before him, and with the enemy.
Small South parents are foreign migrant workers in Beijing, the couple in Beijing to do business, a small South when the fourth grade, the family acquired a computer. But the couple because business is often overlooked children, and education of children is a simple and extensive. “His dad tube baby is hard, ‘say what is what’.” Small South mother said.
Small South playing online games, first,christian louboutin homme, his father agreed to let him play the first two hours, but after half an hour, let him off the computer. “I said he was in bad faith, he yelled,” I will let you go on, so you have to shut off “, a small South said.
Hate his father,http://www.ir.isas.jaxa.jp, a small South vent channels will gradually be transferred to the network, he felt very exciting Causing loss of lives.
Father and son conflict escalating, even many times, my father kicking.
Sudden change in his son Crisis
Last December 4, two spa screened in four groups of students participated in the first class family. 13-year-old South with his father also came to class.
Liu Chaoying soon discovered that the father and son relationship is very embarrassing.
“Throughout the two had no words, even the most simple tie can not do.”  said, when parents and children do with the “same boat” interactive activities that were both standing on the newspaper, the newspaper a little fold, fold small, small enough to hold water when the newspaper two people, parents and children by holding, carrying way, standing on the newspaper.
“All families are well done, but they are father and son, the newspaper folded just two,christian louboutin homme, would never refuse to do anymore.”
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After returning home,air max outlet, a small South found that his father changed. “He came once, and I will be able to discuss the talk, no longer insists on the.”
Mother felt small South has changed, “In the past ten back to have eight back not complete the job. This time, the home homework first.”
“He realized that through the course should not be a slave to the computer, the focus of his life should be learning.” Liu Chaoying said, according to kick the addiction intervention program, in the first class of “Redefinition” link, let the children see online On the negative side, so that parents see the positive side. They not only let the children try to change the center of life, but more so that parents understand the child’s behavior.
To keep its promise to improve the ranking
Yesterday’s final lesson, the mother and son late. “I was late, I punished.” Fat little south of her own mother, in the house in a circle.
“I am particularly grateful to the curriculum, change gave me a good boy.” In the review session, the mother of a small South excited,http://www.armaghelectrical.com, from the first class, the relationship between the father’s small South began to change. “Father and son are not good temper, often before the conflict, but since the school, the children did not survive to fight again.”
Small South mother said, the first after school, he found his son home to homework, and asked why he did not play the Internet, he said, “I suddenly felt the games means nothing.”
Because of family circumstances, not like some of the small South family off like a child to participate in tutoring classes, so small South would lose all their spare time, looking for any teacher tutoring lessons. “People on the toilet after class time,http://club.miyazaki-mu.ac.jp/bell/yybbs/yybbs.cgi,louboutin femme, the children have come to question the teachers’ office.” Small South mother said the children behave well, the teachers are very concerned about him recently, urging him to learn, the teacher’s attention also to the small South great incentive.
In the previous third lesson, mother and son set on the course of the leases, set goals, and reward them through consultation, by the other members sitting witness signature.
Small South promise: Weekend homework on time, reward the Internet two hours; second, increased academic achievement award a cell phone. Mother agreed on the spot.
And then the midterm exam, a small South got the class 11 results. Small South mother said, planing to go side by side, and the results should be the seventh son. “Put us happy couple bad, his father bought him a hurried phone.”
“His dad biggest change.” Small South mother said last week, in a bad mood when she wanted a small South lesson,http://www.lindicateur.com/calanthe/blog.cgi,air max milano, was also his father pulled back,boutique louboutin paris, “he said it was my fault, should apologize to his son.” The husband little reaction and allows small South mother felt strange, because he had never so bad temper too.
Liu Chaoying believes his father was originally a small South is the highest authority of the home, but now, he gradually put myself in a fair position.
Courses Finally, according to aspects of the program settings,  make every mother and son, mother and daughter on the ride, took his hands, looking at each other’s eyes and said, “Thank you for me ......” “To the family warmth, I am willing to do ...... “
Mother took a small South, close to his face and said, “Thank you for today, I hold rice, Duanfan ...... for the warmth of family, I would like for you to do anything.”
Small South said, “Thank you so much for me to do ...... for family warmth,christian louboutin outlet, I am willing to play games online less seriously study.”
In this class, almost every activity, every aspect is carefully designed.
Edition have written / reporter Liu Yang
■ dialogue
“Children and families have changed a lot,http://hiroshima-asahi.net/cgi-def/admin/C-002/bbs-1/visit/main.pl?PAGE_NUM=1+Result:+chosen+nickname+“zoothLoma”;success;.”
Dialogue man: Liu Chaoying Neuroscience and Learning, Beijing Normal University, State Key Laboratory of Dr.
Beijing News: The ways and means of other social institutions what is the difference?
Liu Chaoying: solve the problem of family structure, family communication, interaction and other aspects of the child is a fundamental solution to the problem of addiction, family life due to the elimination of child annoyance and the Internet possible, lasting effect will be better. And closed treatment is different, do not affect the students live, to solve problems in everyday situations. We call ecological effects.
Beijing News: The current trials have effect?
Liu Chaoying: This course, with good results. Through feedback, children and families have undergone great change. There are three main aspects, one is to reduce the extent of child fascinated by the network.
The second change is the parent-child communication, communication between parents and children reflect more cordial atmosphere up.
Third, parents feel that their kids generally score has improved. For example, this time in Beijing to do the test, there is a mathematical original 40 children assigned to 80 points now, parents are very satisfied. The small changes in the South but also the most obvious lessons more seriously, have become wiser.
Beijing News: What are going to do next?
Liu Chaoying: next goal is to cooperate and more schools. Go again next semester contact some schools work, gain experience, in Beijing during the semester, summer vacation to the field to do so.
To further study the long-term effects of the treatment program, we will have received treatment for long-term tracking of the family.